Inside “holding the door” is the idea that we didn’t get to where we are on our own. There were many people who helped us on our life journey. In a BIG way, they held the door open for us as we grew up and developed becoming the person that we each are today.
Over the years I have had a number of mentors, each for a period of time or season in my life or for a specific area of work that I need some guidance in. I have also had the privilege to be a mentor to a lot of teens and young adults as well as some camp directors. Many times those relationships grow into friendships.
I had the opportunity to hold the door for many young campers and camp staff coming up through the camps I have been part of. I certainly don’t take it for granted that I got to have some influence in their lives. Every now and then, I get to hear from one of them about the impact I was able to have in their life. It is rewarding to be sure. It’s like getting to see behind the curtain in Oz.
AI gave me the following summary:
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- Gratitude and Humility: Recognizing that you did not succeed in a vacuum and that others helped pave the way.
- Creating Opportunity: Actively opening doors (opportunities, access, understanding) for others, especially those not yet at the same level.
- Shared Responsibility: Acknowledging that we are all interconnected, and it is our responsibility to make space for others in our communities and workplaces.
- Mindfulness: Choosing kindness over impatience and taking time to support others in a rushed world.
Who held the door for you? Take some time to reflect on how they helped you. Consider reaching out to one or more of them to let them know the impact they had on your life.
Who are you currently holding the door for today? Who needs your encouragement? Who is looking for your encouragement? Who needs a mentor or coach? Are you ready to step in?
You may not see the reward, but it’s well worth your effort! I encourage you – hold the door!
Meandering Moose 